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How I Coach
Because each professional coach has his or her own style of coaching clients, I thought that you should understand how I coach, what I expect of my clients, and what my clients can expect of me.
My clients are professionals!
I am blessed with the privilege of having you as my client. There are plenty of times that personalities clash and I want you to know that when I don’t feel comfortable with the direction we are moving together I will let you know and ask how we may remedy the issue. If we mutually agree that the process is not working for us, then I will recommend you to my coaching colleagues that may be a better match for you. All of my clients are continuously growing in their success, and well being, and I am assisting you to further your personal and professional lives.
I expect your best!
If you are hiring me, then you’re probably ready to do and be your best. And if you aren’t doing your best, I’ll ask you to do so. If you can’t do that at the moment, I’ll understand and do what you need to be heard and helped back onto your path.
I make direct requests!
You will receive requests from me in a binding format such as “Will you accomplish X by the end of the month?” You may say yes, say no, or offer another solution. I’ll ask you to write down whichever way you respond and what we agree to occur.
I give straight advice!
If I am sure of the situation, and if you’re open to it, I’ll make specific suggestions on how to handle a problem or go for an opportunity. If I am not sure, I’ll say so. Honesty is one of my core values— I am straight forward and expect the same from you. Regardless, use the best of what I say and use your own judgment.
I don’t sidestep much!
When I hear a funny tone in your voice or notice something amiss, I’ll ask you about it. Often, it is in these small moments that offer the chance to resolve something allowing you to move forward in your progress. However, I don’t confront or push; I’ll merely invite you to look at something.
I give lots of homework!
I usually ask that the client come up with two or three goals, actions, or shifts to have between one call and the next. If it is too much, say so. If you want more, just ask.
You are expected to use me, not depend on me!
As your coach, I am a resource for you to use to your best advantage: I have an almost unlimited amount of love, compassion, forgiveness, and strength for all of my clients, and I can share many principles that will increase your success and add to the quality of your life. I ask that my clients use me as this resource and the friend that I am, but not to let themselves get into the position of needing me (or coaching itself) as a dependency thing or a fix.
I am here for you!
I want to hear it all. If you have a personal problem, are disturbed with something (even me or the coaching), are just starting to realize something big, or can’t wait to share a shift or win, call or e-mail me anytime.
Most
Sincerely,
Gordon Jones, DHA, MHSA, PAHM, PPM
Owner & Coach
706-564-9275
